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  • The Hidden Power of Place: Why Where You Live, Work, and Play Matters

    The Hidden Power of Place: Why Where You Live, Work, and Play Matters

    Join us in welcoming guest blogger Mackenzie Cottles! Mackenzie is on staff at the Shoals Economic Development Authority (Shoals EDA), and this week she’s sharing the story of Remote Shoals and why where you live matters. Now more than ever, we want to highlight opportunities for people to do meaningful, productive work that also allows them to lead full lives for their mental, emotional, and physical wellbeing. Thank you for sharing your insights, Mackenzie! 

    In today’s fast-paced world, many people prioritize career advancement above all else when making life decisions. While having a fulfilling career is undoubtedly important, where you live plays an equally—if not more—significant role in your overall happiness and well-being. The place you call home influences everything from your daily lifestyle to your financial security and mental health. Thanks to remote work opportunities and shifting cultural norms, individuals now have more flexibility to choose a living environment that best suits their needs.

    The Influence of Your Environment on Your Well-Being

    Where you live matters. Your surroundings have a profound effect on your mood, productivity, and overall happiness. Living in a place that aligns with your lifestyle preferences—whether that means access to outdoor activities, cultural experiences, or a lower cost of living—can greatly enhance your quality of life. For instance, someone who thrives in nature might feel stifled in a dense urban setting, while others may crave the energy and opportunities that big cities provide.

    Beyond personal preference, factors like community engagement, work-life balance, and social support play a crucial role in shaping life satisfaction. Research has shown that individuals who feel connected to their community tend to experience lower stress levels and higher overall happiness. Additionally, factors such as climate, access to healthcare, public transportation, and safety can have a direct impact on your physical and mental well-being.

    Career Success vs. Lifestyle Fulfillment

    A common misconception is that career success should dictate where you live. Historically, job opportunities have significantly influenced relocation decisions, often prompting professionals to relocate to major metropolitan areas. However, the rise of remote work has fundamentally changed the way people approach their careers and living situations. More than ever, individuals have the freedom to live where they truly want rather than being confined to high-cost urban centers for job opportunities.

    This shift has led many people to adopt a lifestyle-centric career planning approach, which emphasizes designing your life around what makes you happy rather than solely chasing professional titles. When choosing where to live, factors such as affordability, climate, recreational activities, and proximity to loved ones should be prioritized. After all, a high salary in an expensive city may not provide the same quality of life as a modest income in a more affordable, community-oriented town.

    How Remote Shoals Empowers Remote Workers

    The Remote Shoals program is an excellent example of how people can choose a location that aligns with their values and goals. This initiative offers up to $10,000 in incentives for remote workers willing to relocate to The Shoals, a vibrant region in northwest Alabama known for its rich musical heritage, thriving arts scene, and affordable cost of living. This program presents an incredible opportunity for professionals seeking a balance between a fulfilling career and a high quality of life.

    To qualify for Remote Shoals, applicants must meet the following criteria:

    • Earn at least $52,000 annually from a remote position
    • Self-employed or employed full-time by a company located outside The Shoals that will allow the applicant to reside in The Shoals for the Program Term (proof of employment will be required)
    • Commit to relocating within six months if accepted

    Any additional criteria can be found at remoteshoals.com/program-terms-and-conditions/

    By providing financial incentives and a supportive community, Remote Shoals enables individuals to build a fulfilling life in a place that offers both affordability and cultural richness. The program is particularly attractive for remote workers who are looking to escape the high costs of major cities and establish roots in a location that fosters a strong sense of community. Where you live matters! Applications are currently open, but the current round will close on March 31, 2025!

    The Benefits of Choosing the Right Place to Live

    Beyond financial incentives, relocating to a place that aligns with your values and lifestyle can lead to greater overall happiness. Some of the key benefits include:

    1. Lower Cost of Living – Many smaller towns and mid-sized cities offer more affordable housing, lower taxes, and reduced living expenses compared to major metropolitan areas. 
    2. Improved Work-Life Balance – Living in a place with access to nature, recreational activities, and less traffic can create a healthier balance between work and personal life.
    3. Stronger Sense of Community – Smaller towns often offer more opportunities to build genuine relationships and engage with the local community, resulting in increased well-being and social satisfaction.
    4. Less Stress and Better Mental Health – Avoiding the hustle and bustle of big-city life can lead to lower stress levels and improved mental health, ultimately resulting in a better overall quality of life.
    5. Opportunity for Financial Freedom – With lower living costs, individuals can allocate more resources toward savings, travel, or passion projects that enrich their lives beyond work.

    Conclusion: Where You Live Matters

    Choosing where to live should be about more than just chasing a job title. Your environment plays a significant role in shaping your lifestyle, financial stability, and mental well-being. Programs like Remote Shoals demonstrate how location flexibility can empower individuals to prioritize happiness, community, and a healthy work-life balance. By considering factors beyond just career opportunities, you can make a choice that leads to long-term fulfillment and success in both your professional and personal life.

    As companies reevaluate their remote work policies, many employees are being asked to return to the office—whether full-time or in a hybrid capacity. This shift can be particularly challenging for those who have relocated or grown accustomed to the flexibility of working from home. To navigate this transition, it’s essential to stay informed about company policies, maintain open communication with your employer, and proactively plan for your future. Programs like Remote Shoals offer an opportunity to build a supportive community that extends beyond the workplace, providing valuable networking connections and an enhanced quality of life. By establishing strong local ties and prioritizing personal fulfillment, remote workers can better adapt to career shifts while maintaining a sense of stability and well-being.

    Ultimately, your career should serve as a tool to enhance your life rather than dictate where you live. With the rise of remote work and relocation programs, you now have the power to craft a life that reflects your values, aspirations, and overall happiness. So, if you’ve been feeling confined by your current location, consider making a change—your ideal lifestyle may be just one move away.

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    About Mackenzie

    Mackenzie Cottles is the Marketing & Communications Specialist at the Shoals Economic Development Authority, where she manages and coordinates the Remote Shoals program. After working with Remote Shoals participants to ensure their time in the Shoals and in the program is everything they hope for, Mackenzie knows that relationships are an essential part of achieving their goal of bringing life-long citizens to the Shoals community. Mackenzie holds a Bachelor of Science in Mass Communications with a focus in Public Relations and a minor in Marketing from the University of North Alabama.

    About Shoals EDA

    The Shoals Economic Development Authority (Shoals EDA) is a professional organization dedicated to economic development in Northwest Alabama, including Lauderdale and Colbert Counties. The Shoals EDA aids companies that are planning new or expanded facilities. The Authority serves as a point of contact to the network of private sector and local, state, and federal government entities that support a company relocation or expansion decision. It is organized as a public/private organization funded by local governments and area businesses.

  • My Six-Week Soul Sabbath

    My Six-Week Soul Sabbath

    When you think of a sabbatical from work, what comes to mind? I took a few minutes to write the first words that came to my mind. They were: breather, time off, soul rest, work-life balance and creative restoration.  As the newest member of the Horizon Point team, I was not as familiar with the term sabbatical like the rest of the ladies. 

    Rumor has it that in 2021 everyone was on Mary Ila’s back porch in a Monthly Mingle meeting, distracted, busy and burned out. A couple of our team members had been to the hospital with chest pains, and it was tangible how deeply everyone needed a “soul sabbath”. The next item on the agenda was sabbaticals for everyone. That meant 6 weeks of paid time off for mental, physical and spiritual restoration. The idea was that when everyone was full, they would be able to dedicate their best selves to the mission. Thus, the Horizon Point sabbatical was born.

    This year, for our second quarterly planning meeting, “Sabbaticals” was on the agenda. Apparently, everyone on the team had been busy juggling too many balls and the subject was brought up before we even got to it. Not being familiar with the art of sabbaticals, I had loads of questions. “So, we get paid for 6 weeks? You don’t check your emails? What about Insighlty-the CRM we use for our tasks? Are you sure?” Everyone on the team assured me that it was a wonderful experience and that it would be well worth it. So, I blocked off November 1-December 16th and as if I could read my own fortune, forecasted the most timely sabbatical I didn’t even know that I needed.

    You see, 8 weeks ago, I found out that I am expecting my second child. My husband and I had prayed for this baby, but I knew before trying that historically, pregnancy has not always been the easiest experience for me. Add in coming off anti depressants in July and the beginning of the perfect hormonal storm was brewed. Things that normally are a challenge or are exciting for me have invoked fear, and I could feel deep inside that I needed to be still. The next quote is from Mary Ila’s blog, The Surgeon General’s Warning and Professional Development.

    A week or so after the conversation with the pregnancy announcement, we have our monthly one-on-one. We talk through a lot of client work and potential work. It is kind of hectic. We have to call another team member in at one point to talk through an execution plan for a new client. 

    And as we usually do in one-on-ones, we spend some time talking about her professional development within the context of her needs and the company’s needs. 

    I can tell she is concerned about taking on too much during this season of her life where a new child will enter and in her current state where she just doesn’t feel good and she never knows when that may or may not hit. Thus are the joys of growing a human being inside you. 

    I think out loud and I can tell my thinking out loud may be overwhelming her. I even sometimes overwhelm myself with it.  

    So, I stop. I ask her to think about one thing she wants to grow in professionally. Just one.  I can tell she doesn’t want to stall her learning and growth, and she says as much, but she also wants some grace as she navigates what looks like a very different season coming up for her.  

    I don’t want her to stop learning and growing. I want her to continue to grow in her confidence and skills where she can continue to add value to the organization.  But I know she won’t do either of these things if she is overwhelmed. 

    I don’t think Mary Ila knew the impact that reading that in black and white had on me. During that meeting we discussed juggling too many balls but also the fact that there are bouncy balls and there are glass balls. Bouncy balls like professional development will do that just-bounce, but the glass balls like mental health are a little less resilient. So on my six week “Soul Sabbath” I plan to rest. Not to lay down (although that may be on the agenda too) but to rest my mind. To be still and to know. After all, God’s track record in my life is GOOD.

    If you are interested in learning more about how to create organizations where people thrive, please visit our Illuminate website at: https://horizonpointconsulting.com/illuminate/

  • What is Your Organization’s Employee Value Proposition?

    What is Your Organization’s Employee Value Proposition?

    Last week I joined Mary Ila at the AARC Annual Conference and had the opportunity to speak to leaders about recruiting and retaining talent in today’s workforce. Recruiting has changed drastically over the last few decades, from candidates having to convince an organization why they’re the best person for the job, to organizations having to convince candidates why they’re the best company to work for. Candidates today aren’t just interested in the money, but are looking at the employer’s overall Employee Value Proposition (EVP) or what the company can offer them that makes them an employer of choice. 

    An EVP are the unique benefits, values, and culture that the organization offers the employee in exchange for their performance and loyalty. There are six characteristics that organizations need to evaluate their EVP and assess where changes need to be made. 

    1. Compensation: While compensation is not the lone factor in a candidate’s decision to accept an offer, it is an important factor. You need to determine if your organization is going to lag, match, or lead the market. And sometimes this depends on the industry you’re in and why someone would work for your organization. For example, non-profits generally lag the market and pay around the 25th percentile, however, most individuals who work for non-profits know this and aren’t opting to work for a non-profit for the pay, but for the purpose. In addition to salary, what other compensation benefits do you offer? Are there opportunities for commissions or bonuses? How much does the company contribute towards benefits? 
    2. Benefits:  In addition to looking at what your organization contributes toward benefits, it’s also important to evaluate what benefits you offer? In order to attract talent in today’s workplace, you need to go beyond the basics. Are you offering tuition reimbursement, flexible spending accounts that help with childcare costs, employee assistance plans, and robust leave accruals? What about more unique benefits that set you apart? For example, I had a client that had a car detail company come in once a month and employees could get their cars washed and detailed while they worked. It was at the employee cost, but the detailer service gave them a discount, and just the convenience of it was a benefit to the employees. 
    3. Mission, Vision, Values: One of the primary factors that a candidate considers is the mission, vision, and values of the organization and how that aligns with their own mission and vision. A study conducted by Glassdoor showed that 77% of candidates consider a company’s mission, vision, and values before applying to a position. Does your organization have clearly defined mission, vision, and values? And how do you ensure they are communicated to individuals who are interested in working for your company?
    4. Culture: Having well defined mission, vision, and values is only the first step. Are you living them? Are you training employees on what your mission, vision, and values are and holding them accountable to them? Do your leaders model behaviors that exemplify your values? What is it about your company culture that is unique?
    5. Environment: When evaluating your work environment, there are two dimensions you need to consider – first is the physical environment. What is the physical environment that the candidate would be working in and what are the benefits to that physical environment? Are they able to work remote or hybrid, is the worksite location in a great area that offers amenities such as restaurants, shopping, etc.? If the candidate will be traveling to different worksites, what does the organization offer in the way of convenience and safety, such as a company car? The second is the mental environment. Does the organization support the mental health of its employees? Does the organization offer a psychologically safe workplace where employees are free to raise concerns, ideas, admit mistakes, etc. without fear of reprimand or retaliation? 
    6. Opportunity: How does your organization support employees professional development? Are there opportunities to attend training, conferences, earn certifications, or share their knowledge with others? Do you promote from within when possible and give employees opportunities for advancement? Do you allow employees to cross-train in other areas of the organization? And do you have conversations with your employees on what they want out of their career, where they want to be in three to five years and how you can help them get there? 

    Understanding your EVP and communicating it to candidates and employees can help ensure that you attract and retain top talent. If your organization has not evaluated its EVP, here is a worksheet to get you started. 

  • 3 Tips for Leading in the New Normal

    3 Tips for Leading in the New Normal

    I’m speaking today at AARC’s Annual Conference.  We’ve had the privilege of speaking at this annual conference for the last several years. We love all of the Regional Council on Governments and Planning Commissions that partner with us across the state. 

    As I speak on “Leading in the New Normal,” I’m reminded of all that has shaped this “new normal”.   Shifts in the economy and technology, the pandemic, generational differences.  Even Surgeon General’s warnings. 

    But as I begin to unpack these influences imparting a new workplace paradigm, has leadership gotten easier or has it gotten harder?  Most would say harder. 

    But does it have to be? 

    The advice I have to offer in today’s presentation and to you today about how to lead in the normal are not that complex.  Ignore the things that caused whatever you are dealing with and instead focus on the people in front of you. 

    If you can do half of things half better than the rest of “leaders” out there, you won’t be normal.  You’ll be a standout leader. 

    1. Know what is actually required for the people you lead to get the job done and done well.  This should be a product of two things:
      1. Your organizational values- that create your competitive advantage
      2. The jobs requirements that create clear work expectations

    What is not required is the latest workplace fad, the trend to go back to the way things “used to be” (Amazon, just recently announced it is), or a focus on “fairness”. 

    1. Know what is actually required of YOU to lead well.  The number one requirement of leading well is leading- your influence to get work done through others and to grow them in a way that expands the capacity of what can get done and done with excellence.  Apparently, there are only about four things that if done well separate the good from the bad:
      1. Don’t make people work nights and weekends (and you doing so makes them think they should)
      2. Have regular one-on-one meetings with each direct report
      3. Build relationships across departments (and organizations, I’ll add)
      4. Stop keeping people in meetings all the time
    1. In the words of Brene Brown, Be Daring, Not Armored.  Leadership is hard, and no one is going to be perfect at it.  Striving for perfection leads to armored leadership behaviors.  It leads to a mentality of “I am right” and a tone of leadership defined by fear.  It doesn’t work.  Instead, practicing daring leadership leads to learning and growth for yourself and others.   Here’s some of our posts on this concept if you want to dive deeper into how to actually practice it: 

    If you are leading in the “new normal”, what is one thing you can do today to lead well? 
    Find the resources for Mary Ila’s presentation here: Horizon Point What’s Up Page

  • The Surgeon General’s Warning and Professional Development

    The Surgeon General’s Warning and Professional Development

    As I take in my daily dose of news fed to me via email by the New York Times on Saturday, August 31, I’m surprised to see the title: Opinion: Surgeon General: Parents Are at Their Wits’ End. We Can Do Better.  

    Saturday’s Times email blast usually features a more lighthearted piece, especially on a holiday weekend. 

    But as I opened the article, I couldn’t help thinking, “No sh*t!” to what the Surgeon General was saying. You see, I have literally just cleaned up sh*t (Or wait, was it vomit?) off the floor of our bathroom as child number two out of three started with a full round of the stomach bug and didn’t quite make it to the toilet. 

    Such are the “joys”, I guess, as the Surgeon General references in his opinion piece. It is back to school season and everyone is passing around germs. 

    But this is not all that has come during back to school month in a household of three children ages 13,10, and 5. When they are healthy, EVERYDAY at school, everyday of life, demands something. 

    Take for example, the day before the holiday weekend started. One child had to bring a snack for his class that corresponded with the color of the day- black. In case you are wondering, Oreos were a hit for the group of four and five year olds. And don’t forget, he had to wear black too. This is day nine of ten days of the color game where corresponding outfits with the color of the day are a must. We opted for bracelets two of the ten days because I refused to go buy clothes just to meet the color demands of Pre-K. 

    The ten-year-old had student council speeches at 8:15 am the same day. Prior to said speech, this required the speech to be written and turned in for approval and posters to be made. Oh, and a parent form to sign. Of course, it outlined the requirements and obligations of both parent and student for accepting the role of leading the student government of an elementary school. She ran for President and lost, so cue in the emotional support needing to be provided there. This support takes place in between trips to the said toilet with the stomach bug. 

    And the thirteen year old. Well, his struggles have been much like the Surgeon General leads his article with- serious health issues. On this Thursday before the Labor Day holiday, he had just been discharged from an almost week long hospital stay. 

    So, you can see why I was saying “No sh*t!” to the Surgeon General op-ed. It has been a season for our family of intense stress. Honestly, it takes a toll even when someone isn’t hospitalized or throwing up everywhere. 

    The demands for black snacks, constant school events- which nine times out of ten requires you to send money and fill out a form- is ongoing. And let us not forget figuring out how the heck you are going to carve out time to work to pay for all this stuff and get work done (if you are fortunate enough to have the flexibility to leave work) to attend kids activities in and out of school or care for them when they are sick. 

    I have it made, but…

    The Surgeon General and I may not be in identical boats, but we both have it “made” when it comes to the lifestyle we can afford for ourselves and our children. 

    As the first comment I saw of the NYT piece said, “Dr. Murphy had access to top shelf medical care and a supportive workplace. He is very lucky. A lot of parents don’t have these advantages.”  

    I have these advantages too. My husband and I work for ourselves and therefore have a ton of flexibility when it comes to when and where and how we do work. At least one of us can make the 8:15 am student council speech and another the 2:15 carline pick up line because our five year old is too young to go to extended day at the elementary school where he attends. We don’t have to punch a time clock, and we are able to divide and conquer.  

    Our health insurance is uber expensive and not that great of coverage honestly, but we have it. We don’t have to make decisions on whether to access the healthcare system if any of us needs it based on whether or not we can afford it. 

    That doesn’t negate the stress, though, of the 12:08 am email that had to go out to a client the night my son was admitted to hospital to say, last minute, that I wouldn’t be at his facility the next morning given what I described to him vaguely as “a family medical emergency.”  Or the meeting I had to put off twice about starting a new contract with another client with the same vague reasoning. I eventually had to delegate the meeting to a person on my team who I know executed everything beautifully. But it is just another example of the constant- and I mean constant- reshuffling I have to do to try to work- and I’m lucky that it is work I love- and raise kids.  

    I cannot imagine the toll day-to-day parenting takes on the single parent, the parent that can’t leave work or they will be fired, the parent who doesn’t have insurance, and the parent who doesn’t have a village of people around them helping them.

    We’ve been raising kids since the beginning of time. Has it always been this hard? 

    So maybe it is just the way things are today.  Me and peers are making too much of parenting, spending too much time worrying about our kids, engaging them and us in too many activities in and out of school, worried too much about them missing out. Or are we both working when only one of us should? Or are we worried about missing out on every single thing they do because of the comparison and judgment between parents that show up for everything and those that do not?  

    I think since the beginning of time parenting has been stressful. Cue Cain and Abel and that tragedy. I’m sure the death of one son at the hand of the other was pretty stressful for Adam and Eve income, privilege, and societal demands of the time and all aside. The stress of trying to provide the very best care for our children so they can grow up to be healthy adults is not new, and I think it is one all parents have shared since the beginning of time. 

    But there are some things today that are different.  As comments in the NYT article point to, screens and social media do, I think, play a role in the difficulties. They aren’t to blame, but they do play a role. The way the structure of work is misaligned with education and childcare (access and affordability) plays a role. The way we are constantly striving for more, more, more plays a role. And as many of the comments in the NYT Op-Ed point to, this seems to be unique to America. Do kids really need to go on two field trips in one month at school? Do we really need to operate this factory 24/7/365?  The healthcare system, as MANY comments in the NYT article point to, plays a role and adds a lot of stress if and when you have to encounter it. And if you are alive, you will at one point or another. 

    And as I write this last paragraph, my inbox dings with a breaking news alert from the Times, “Four people were killed and at least nine injured in a shooting on the campus of a Georgia high school, the authorities said.”  

    Yeah, there is that stress too.  If I send my kid to school today, are they going to get shot?

    Yes, things are the same as the beginning of time, and yet they are different. 

    So how on earth do I- or people like me who have pretty constant caregiving demands and stress- even think about professional development? 

    We’ve been focused on the importance of professional development on the blog for the last few weeks. We’ve talked about what we’ve been up to for professional development, the ROI of it, and how to do it when you don’t really have a budget for it. 


    But what if you are in a season of life where you just don’t have the time for it or the mental bandwidth to focus on it? Did you notice in the what we’ve been up to for professional development post what I’ve been doing for PD?  Nope, you didn’t. That is because I am not doing a thing! Practicing what I preach I am not.   

    What if you are leading someone or working along someone that is in this season?  Many of which are sandwiched caregivers- caring for growing children and aging parents all at once.  

    Or are you leading someone who really needs to focus on caring for themselves? Or a spouse or other loved one? Let’s face it, everyone has something with varying degrees of intensity and capacity to handle that intensity. 

    As I am contemplating this post while caring for the thirteen year old through his go-round with the stomach bug (yes, it made its way through all of us), I get a text from someone that works with me. I cringe when she says she works “for” me, but I pay her. I’m supposed to be that leader who is focused on the ROI of her professional development. 

    She asks when would be a good time for her to call me. I tell her I’m free and the phone rings shortly after. 

    After checking on us and also talking about her family, she says, “I’m pregnant.”   

    I congratulate her and we talk about some work things. Then, she circles back around to what I know has been on her mind the most. How does she navigate having and raising this child with work? 

    How do I do it? she asks. Well, not really well at the moment I want to tell her!  

    I know she wonders if the same privilege I gave myself of easing back into work after having all three of my kids be afforded to her? Of course it will. Of course. 

    And what about healthcare? Can she get on the company’s family coverage? I reach out to get the benefits plan information from our insurance provider to send to her shortly after we get off the phone. 

    The Surgeon General points to things in his piece like paid parental leave and changes in healthcare to help with the “toll” of parenting. Whereas I don’t think anything he mentions are bad things, my political philosophy inclines me to think that it isn’t the government’s job to alleviate “tolls” we face, but our very own. 

    It is the job of families, employers, and communities to create a healthy society. To help society successfully navigate and mitigate the tolls this life lays on each and every one of us and to revel in the joy that comes with life too. 

    Some of the hard cannot and will not be avoided, but some of it can be made better if we care for and treat each other well. That is where the joy mostly comes from. 

    And, yes, families, employers, and communities need to play an active role advocating for the government to play its role where it should, but we can’t turn a blind eye to the choices we have in each of our roles to make a difference. 

    We can treat people like humans, honor the stage of life they are in, and design a workplace around getting work done and getting it done with excellence while also realizing a person’s productivity may ebb and flow based on where they are in life. And realizing it will really ebb in the wrong direction if we neglect to see the whole person and if we try to treat humans like machines. 

    Some balls bounce and some balls break

    A week or so after the conversation with the pregnancy announcement, we have our monthly one-on-one. We talk through a lot of client work and potential work. It is kind of hectic. We have to call another team member in at one point to talk through an execution plan for a new client. 

    And as we usually do in one-on-ones, we spend some time talking about her professional development within the context of her needs and the company’s needs. 

    I can tell she is concerned about taking on too much during this season of her life where a new child will enter and in her current state where she just doesn’t feel good and she never knows when that may or may not hit. Thus are the joys of growing a human being inside you. 

    I think out loud and I can tell my thinking out loud may be overwhelming her. I even sometimes overwhelm myself with it.  

    So, I stop. I ask her to think about one thing she wants to grow in professionally. Just one.  I can tell she doesn’t want to stall her learning and growth, and she says as much, but she also wants some grace as she navigates what looks like a very different season coming up for her.  

    I don’t want her to stop learning and growing. I want her to continue to grow in her confidence and skills where she can continue to add value to the organization.  But I know she won’t do either of these things if she is overwhelmed. 

    None of us perform at an optimum level when we are overwhelmed. And let’s face it, I’ve been overwhelmed pretty much all year.  What is it the Surgeon General called it? Oh yes, I’m at my “Wits’ End.” 

    So, as I heed advice to her, I heed advice to myself.  What is the one thing I want to grow in?  Not ten things, not three things, one thing.  

    Seasons come and seasons go, and right now the season for both of us is one of intense child-rearing. If I’m honest (and you can probably already tell based on my tone to begin with), I am sometimes resentful of the intensity of this child rearing season that takes me away from a focus on professional growth. 

    But like my colleague said in the same meeting, we have rubber balls and we have glass balls. If we drop a rubber ball, it will bounce. But if we drop a glass ball, it will break.  

    My professional growth and hers will bounce. 

    Our children are glass and we parents will do everything in our power to make sure nothing causes them to break. Sometimes we need help discerning what will help our kids grow and what might break them, just like we do for ourselves. 

    But in this season of life for both of us, we both need something we can claim for ourselves and our own growth, even if it is just one thing. One small thing.  It will, I know, make us better parents to have this one thing to call our own and to have each other to challenge us to do it and not take our eye off that ball, even if it will bounce. 

    The whole person of each of your employees and the value they bring to your organization are glass balls too. What are you doing today to make sure they don’t break? Especially when the Surgeon General is issuing warnings about it? 

    And what are you doing to give them a ball or two to bounce so they learn and grow and continue to add value for themselves and your organization?