When you think of a sabbatical from work, what comes to mind? I took a few minutes to write the first words that came to my mind. They were: breather, time off, soul rest, work-life balance and creative restoration.  As the newest member of the Horizon Point team, I was not as familiar with the term sabbatical like the rest of the ladies. 

Rumor has it that in 2021 everyone was on Mary Ila’s back porch in a Monthly Mingle meeting, distracted, busy and burned out. A couple of our team members had been to the hospital with chest pains, and it was tangible how deeply everyone needed a “soul sabbath”. The next item on the agenda was sabbaticals for everyone. That meant 6 weeks of paid time off for mental, physical and spiritual restoration. The idea was that when everyone was full, they would be able to dedicate their best selves to the mission. Thus, the Horizon Point sabbatical was born.

This year, for our second quarterly planning meeting, “Sabbaticals” was on the agenda. Apparently, everyone on the team had been busy juggling too many balls and the subject was brought up before we even got to it. Not being familiar with the art of sabbaticals, I had loads of questions. “So, we get paid for 6 weeks? You don’t check your emails? What about Insighlty-the CRM we use for our tasks? Are you sure?” Everyone on the team assured me that it was a wonderful experience and that it would be well worth it. So, I blocked off November 1-December 16th and as if I could read my own fortune, forecasted the most timely sabbatical I didn’t even know that I needed.

You see, 8 weeks ago, I found out that I am expecting my second child. My husband and I had prayed for this baby, but I knew before trying that historically, pregnancy has not always been the easiest experience for me. Add in coming off anti depressants in July and the beginning of the perfect hormonal storm was brewed. Things that normally are a challenge or are exciting for me have invoked fear, and I could feel deep inside that I needed to be still. The next quote is from Mary Ila’s blog, The Surgeon General’s Warning and Professional Development.

A week or so after the conversation with the pregnancy announcement, we have our monthly one-on-one. We talk through a lot of client work and potential work. It is kind of hectic. We have to call another team member in at one point to talk through an execution plan for a new client. 

And as we usually do in one-on-ones, we spend some time talking about her professional development within the context of her needs and the company’s needs. 

I can tell she is concerned about taking on too much during this season of her life where a new child will enter and in her current state where she just doesn’t feel good and she never knows when that may or may not hit. Thus are the joys of growing a human being inside you. 

I think out loud and I can tell my thinking out loud may be overwhelming her. I even sometimes overwhelm myself with it.  

So, I stop. I ask her to think about one thing she wants to grow in professionally. Just one.  I can tell she doesn’t want to stall her learning and growth, and she says as much, but she also wants some grace as she navigates what looks like a very different season coming up for her.  

I don’t want her to stop learning and growing. I want her to continue to grow in her confidence and skills where she can continue to add value to the organization.  But I know she won’t do either of these things if she is overwhelmed. 

I don’t think Mary Ila knew the impact that reading that in black and white had on me. During that meeting we discussed juggling too many balls but also the fact that there are bouncy balls and there are glass balls. Bouncy balls like professional development will do that just-bounce, but the glass balls like mental health are a little less resilient. So on my six week “Soul Sabbath” I plan to rest. Not to lay down (although that may be on the agenda too) but to rest my mind. To be still and to know. After all, God’s track record in my life is GOOD.

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