Category: Personal Development

We all need a little personal development mixed in with our professional and career development. Read blogs in this category for stories and best practices for personal wellness and wellbeing, skills improvement, and  more.

  • The Leaders You Need Are Already Here

    The Leaders You Need Are Already Here

    Why Developing Emerging Leaders Matters Now

    The leaders you need may already be in your organization. They may not have a formal leadership title yet. They may be individual contributors, project leads, experienced team members, or newer employees who consistently show initiative, influence, curiosity, and trust. The challenge is not always finding leadership potential. Often, the challenge is recognizing it early and developing it with intention.

    Too often, organizations wait until there is a leadership gap before they start thinking about leadership development. Someone leaves. The business grows. A team needs a new supervisor. A high-performing employee gets promoted because they are great at the work. Then, almost overnight, the job changes. Success is no longer just about technical skill, individual productivity, or personal drive. Now, success depends on the ability to influence people, communicate clearly, coach performance, handle conflict, and make decisions that shape culture.

    That transition can be tough, especially when employees are expected to lead before they have been prepared to do so. Harvard Professional & Executive Development notes that emerging leaders need core management skills to drive organizational goals, foster innovation, build trust, and adapt to change. That is not just professional development. It is a business need.

    At Horizon Point, we believe leadership development starts by looking within. When organizations learn how to identify leadership potential and develop emerging leaders from within, they create continuity, strengthen culture, increase engagement, and prepare for future growth. They also send an important message to employees: we see your potential, and we are willing to invest in it.

    Leadership Development Should Be Customized

    In our work with organizations across industries, we see this over and over again: generic leadership programs rarely create lasting change. Organizations need leadership development that connects to their real business challenges, values, people, and future goals.

    For one organization, leadership development became a key part of succession planning. Horizon Point partnered with senior leaders to identify the competencies needed at different levels, clarify the talent pipeline, and equip current leaders to become more intentional career developers for others. The goal was not simply to “train managers.” The goal was to help leaders become active developers of talent throughout the organization.

    This aligns with guidance from the U.S. Office of Personnel Management, which describes succession planning as a systematic approach to building leadership pipelines, developing potential successors, and focusing resources on talent development. Leadership development is not separate from workforce planning. It is one of the ways organizations protect continuity, capability, and future performance.

    From Insight to Action

    We have also seen the impact of customized assessment and coaching work. In one engagement, Horizon Point helped design a customized 360 assessment aligned with organizational values and leadership competencies. The assessment data became the foundation for individual development action plans and succession planning decisions. Participants received coaching to understand their results, identify strengths and gaps, and create clear improvement plans.

    That is the power of a well-designed leadership development process. It provides both insight and action. Data without development can feel like a report card. Development without data can feel unclear. Together, they give organizations a practical way to grow people with purpose.

    The Center for Creative Leadership emphasizes that effective leadership development should connect to business strategy, include real-world application, and be reinforced over time. We see this in practice every day. The best programs give leaders space to practice, reflect, receive feedback, and apply what they are learning in real situations.

    What Environment Do You Create?

    One of the most thought-provoking questions we ask emerging leaders is simple: What environment do you create?

    Leaders may not be able to motivate people directly, but they can create the conditions where motivation, ownership, and growth are more likely to happen. They can clarify expectations. Build trust. Connect work to purpose. Give feedback in a way that develops instead of discourages. Manage different personalities, communication styles, and conflict responses. Make people feel seen, challenged, and supported.

    That is why leadership development must begin from within. It starts with self-awareness. Emerging leaders need to understand how their own habits, values, communication patterns, and assumptions affect others. From there, they can build awareness of the people they lead.

    Building Leaders from the Inside Out

    Every organization will face transitions: retirements, growth, restructuring, new markets, changing workforce expectations, and evolving customer needs. The question is not whether leadership gaps will appear. The question is whether the organization is preparing people now to step into them.

    At Horizon Point, we create and customize leadership development programs that help organizations grow leaders from the inside out. Sometimes that means designing a full leadership development or succession planning process. Sometimes it means facilitating existing curriculum locally with excellence and care. Sometimes it means assessment, coaching, train-the-trainer support, or workshops focused on the skills new leaders need most.

    Because when organizations develop emerging leaders with intention, they do more than fill future roles. They build stronger cultures, more capable teams, and workplaces where people and performance can grow together.

    To learn more about developing emerging leaders and building a strong leadership pipeline, explore these related blog posts:

    From Manager to Coach: Coaching Leadership That Builds Teams

    6 Steps for Choosing Leadership Training Content and 7 Recommended Frameworks

    Interested in developing emerging leaders within your organization? Explore our newly revised Leadership Development webpage to learn how Horizon Point helps organizations build leadership capacity, strengthen succession planning, and prepare leaders for future success.

  • From Manager to Coach: Coaching Leadership That Builds Teams

    From Manager to Coach: Coaching Leadership That Builds Teams

    Many people have stepped into management because they were great at doing the work.

    They were strong individual contributors. They solved problems quickly. They delivered results.

    So when they become managers, they often continue doing what worked before. They direct tasks, answer questions, and step in to solve problems.

    But this approach can create an unintended challenge.

    When managers remain the primary problem solver, team growth can stall. Over time, employees begin to rely on the manager for answers instead of developing their own solutions. The leader becomes a bottleneck rather than a multiplier.

    This is where the shift from manager to coach becomes powerful.

    Instead of focusing primarily on directing work, coaching leadership focuses on developing people.

    When leaders develop people, teams become stronger, more capable, and more engaged.

     

    The difference between managing and coaching

    Research from the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM) highlights that coaching leadership strengthens employees’ problem-solving ability and builds long-term capability rather than reliance on direction from their manager.

    In other words, coaching leaders do not just solve today’s problem. They help employees learn how to solve the next one. Over time, this shift creates stronger and more capable teams.

     

    Why coaching leadership matters

    Research summarized by the National Institutes of Health indicates that supportive leadership and developmental feedback are linked to higher employee engagement and improved performance.

    Similarly, research shared through the American Psychological Association connects regular feedback and developmental leadership practices with improved workplace well-being and productivity.

     

    Four ways to start coaching your team

    1. Ask more questions than you answer. When employees bring a challenge, ask questions that help them think through the issue and build ownership of their work.

    2. Focus on development, not just performance. Make space for conversations about strengths, growth opportunities and future goals.

    For more ideas, see Horizon Point’s 4 Ways to Get Unstuck with Professional Development

    3. Provide feedback regularly. When feedback is clear and timely, employees learn faster and gain confidence in their progress.

    4. Create opportunities for reflection. Ask employees what worked, what could improve and what they learned from the experience.

     

    Building developmental teams

    The goal of coaching leadership is not just stronger performance today. It is building developmental teams where people continually grow their skills, confidence, and leadership capacity.

    Managers get work done through people. Coaches develop people who can get the work done.At Horizon Point, we help organizations strengthen leadership capability through leadership development programs, coaching engagements, and organizational consulting.

     

  • What Cultivates Gratitude? Or Better Yet, What Does Gratitude Cultivate?

    What Cultivates Gratitude? Or Better Yet, What Does Gratitude Cultivate?

    This week we are featuring a reblog from Mary Ila, originally published November 23, 2021.

    I was tasked with writing a blog post on gratitude for this week- Thanksgiving week. I love it when my team gets together without me while I’m on sabbatical and sends me an email telling me what to write 🙂  It’s a given- a post with a theme of thankfulness- even though as a culture we’ve seemed to skip right to Christmas once Halloween ends. 

    I’ve written about counting your blessings and even counting your first-world problems and being thankful when tasked with the same thing before. 

    But what keeps jumping back into my mind this year as I think about how to articulate some inspiration for gratitude is to cite Bryan Stephenson. I had the opportunity to hear Stephenson at a conference I attended this fall.  Bryan Stephenson is the author of Just Mercy and founder of the Equal Justice Initiative.  

    He is obviously an in-demand speaker.  He apparently charged the group nothing for an almost hour-long talk.  He started the session by thanking the people in the audience for the work they do.  Mostly public servants in the audience who spend their days helping people on the margins, he made reference to how some of the services the group was involved in impacted him as a child. 

    He thanked and he thanked and he thanked before he moved into any form of argument or points. 

    But his points were powerful, and also speak to a heart of gratitude I believe that then leads to a heart of grace and mercy, and then one of action. 

    In speaking about the marginalized, or “least of these” Stephenson made four points: 

    1. Commit to getting proximate.  We can’t help if we aren’t close because then we don’t know what we don’t know.  We need to affirm people’s humanity to help them get to higher ground and realize that all our journeys are tied to one another.  
    2. We have to change our narratives.  This means we have to talk about things we haven’t talked about before.  He says we have to, “acknowledge, confess, and repent.”  My favorite quote of the night was, “Beautiful things happen when we tell the truth.  We close ourselves off to beauty when we don’t tell the truth.” 
    3. We have to believe in hope.  This means believing in things we haven’t yet seen and being confident that in getting proximate and changing narratives, they will become seen. 
    4. We have to do things that are uncomfortable and inconvenient.  Really, the first three things echo this point.  Getting proximate is uncomfortable and inconvenient.  Changing our narratives and telling the truth is uncomfortable. Staying hopeful is not only uncomfortable, it is also inconvenient to train our brains to be so.  But in the end, and in the journey itself, that is where the beauty lies. 

    I hope you’ll take this week to be thankful and it will lead you to grace and mercy, which will then inspire you to action.  

    During this holiday season, where do you need to get proximate, change a narrative, have hope, and/or be uncomfortable or inconvenienced? 

  • Nourishing Growth Through Gratitude, Common Ground, and Kindness

    Nourishing Growth Through Gratitude, Common Ground, and Kindness

    A Note from HPC: We’ve had the privilege of working with Cummings Research Park to provide leadership training for high-potential professionals who are shaping innovation in Huntsville, Alabama. The class sessions were hosted at HudsonAlpha, where Dr. Neil Lamb serves as president. During one session, Dr. Lamb joined us as a “leadership in action” guest speaker, sharing his story and insights on purpose-driven leadership. When Mary Ila began planning this special feature for our Nourish theme, she immediately thought of Dr. Lamb as the perfect guest contributor. He agreed that his recent commencement speech at Auburn University captured the message beautifully. And as a two-time Auburn graduate myself, I couldn’t agree more. You can watch the full speech at the end of this blog post. 

    When Dr. Neil Lamb stood before Auburn University’s Class of 2025, he began with honesty and humor. He admitted he could not remember a single word from his own graduation speaker 33 years ago. What he did remember was sitting a few rows away from the woman who would become his wife, a love story that began at Auburn and continues today.

    That story set the tone for a message about what truly sustains us. Dr. Lamb, now president of the HudsonAlpha Institute for Biotechnology, has built a career on advancing science and education. Yet his advice to graduates was not about innovation or research. It was about how to live and lead in a way that nourishes ourselves and others.

    He called on the audience to practice three habits that have the power to shape lives, teams, and communities: gratitude, common ground, and kindness.

    Gratitude: Nourishing Connection

    “Take a moment,” Dr. Lamb urged, “and think of three people who have supported you, believed in you, or pushed you to get to where you are today.”

    Gratitude, he said, is not just for special occasions. It is a daily practice that keeps us connected to what matters most. At Horizon Point, we often talk about nourishing relationships. Gratitude is how that nourishment begins. It reminds us that none of us reach success alone.

    Expressing appreciation builds stronger teams and healthier workplaces. It creates space for joy and perspective, even in times of challenge. When we take the time to say “thank you,” we invest in the human side of work.

    Common Ground: Nourishing Understanding

    In a world filled with division, Dr. Lamb encouraged graduates to seek common ground.

    “You can hold deep convictions while still recognizing the dignity of others,” he said. “Finding common ground isn’t compromising your values. It’s choosing connection over contempt.”

    That kind of leadership starts with curiosity. It is the willingness to listen longer, to stay in the conversation when it gets uncomfortable, and to look for shared purpose instead of differences.

    When we nourish understanding within teams and organizations, collaboration thrives. Trust grows. Solutions emerge. As Dr. Lamb reminded the audience, finding common ground does not mean giving something up. It means building something stronger.

    Kindness: Nourishing Culture

    Dr. Lamb called kindness a “stealth superpower.” It diffuses tension, invites generosity, and changes lives in small and large ways.

    Kindness does not mean ignoring conflict or injustice. It means seeing the humanity in others, especially those who challenge us. It means offering grace when judgment would be easier and patience when frustration feels justified.

    In the workplace, kindness nourishes culture. It sets the tone for how people feel, how they show up, and how they grow. When kindness leads, people are more open, resilient, and ready to contribute their best.

    Belonging and Self-Doubt

    Dr. Lamb also spoke candidly about his own struggle with impostor syndrome. As a student, he felt like he had “slipped through the cracks” and did not truly belong at Auburn. It took years, mentors, and self-reflection to realize that he was right where he needed to be.

    To anyone carrying similar doubts, his message was powerful:

    “You are not here by luck or by mistake. You are here because you deserve to be.
    You will belong in the rooms where ideas get born, where decisions get made, and where the future takes shape.”

    At Horizon Point, we believe belonging is part of being nourished. When people feel seen, valued, and included, they can bring their full selves to their work and their communities.

    A Nourishing Way Forward

    Dr. Lamb closed with a challenge that aligns beautifully with our theme this year:

    Carry gratitude.
    Seek common ground.
    Be kind.

    These are not “soft” skills. They are essential skills that sustain leadership and nourish the people around us.

    Whether you are crossing a stage, leading a team, or facing a personal transition, these three habits can ground and guide you. Gratitude connects. Common ground unites. Kindness uplifts. Together, they nourish growth that lasts.

    “Auburn has prepared you well,” Dr. Lamb said. “You are more than ready. And we can’t wait to see what you do next.”

    War Eagle to that.

  • What Do You Need to Add to Your Professional Development Toolbox?

    What Do You Need to Add to Your Professional Development Toolbox?

    Earlier this summer, I facilitated a Zoom session with a small group of employees to gather feedback on a new training initiative. The discussion was eye-opening. While a few participants voiced concerns about the perceived bureaucracy around required training, others shared that they had already implemented some of the tools and were eager for their colleagues to experience the same growth.

    My biggest takeaway? When rolling out professional development (PD) opportunities, it’s essential to invite your team into the process. Be transparent about the “why” behind the training. Let people know it’s not just a box to check—it’s a pathway for their personal growth and a strategy to drive organizational success.

    This week, I’ll be in Mississippi speaking with educators about building a Professional Development Toolbox (follow along with all of our events here). Shortly after, I’ll head to Mobile, Alabama to kick off a PD course with another group of dedicated educators. Despite being in different locations and varied groups, the message is the same: professional development is not a luxury—it’s a necessity for organizations that want to thrive.

    Whether you’re supporting teachers, tech teams, or healthcare workers, the tools you include in your PD toolbox may differ—but the framework remains consistent:

    1. Identify what your organization needs to operate effectively and stay competitive.
    2. Align those needs with the existing or aspirational skill sets of your employees.
    3. Provide the tools, resources, and opportunities that allow people to grow—and in turn, help your organization flourish.

    As the saying goes, “The only thing worse than training your employees and having them leave is not training them and having them stay.” – Henry Ford

    When professional development is done well, it’s not just about skill-building. It’s about cultivating a culture of curiosity, ownership, and continual growth.

    For ideas on how to get started, check out these previous blog posts:

    Ask us at HPC how we can help you expand your professional development toolbox!