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  • Start the New Year Right with Simplicity

    Start the New Year Right with Simplicity

    At the beginning of a new year, there is a natural pull toward momentum. Fresh calendars, renewed energy, and the promise of progress invite us to jump straight into action. But at Horizon Point Consulting, we believe sustainable success starts with intention—not urgency. Starting the year right means slowing down just enough to be thoughtful, focused, and aligned.

    Here is a simple, disciplined approach we often recommend to individuals and organizations alike.  And you need to write this all down! Don’t just do it in your head. Reflection becomes far more powerful when it moves from your head to paper.

    1. Reflect 

    Before you plan what’s next, take time to reflect on what has been. Two ways to do this are through documenting: 

    Highs and Lows

    Begin by capturing the highs from the past year. What worked? Where did you feel proud, energized, or successful? These moments often reveal strengths and strategies worth repeating.

    Then, honestly document the lows. What felt heavy, frustrating, or misaligned? Where did you lose energy or momentum? Naming these experiences helps you learn from them rather than carry them forward unconsciously.

    Start, Stop, Stay

    Next, organize your reflection into three simple categories:

    • Start: What new habits, behaviors, or practices would serve you better this year?
    • Stop: What is no longer working and needs to be released?
    • Stay: What is already working well and should be protected or reinforced?

    This exercise brings clarity and creates a strong foundation for meaningful change.

    Mel Robbin’s Best Year Workbook highlights a reflection on both of these things and may help you get these reflections down on paper. 

    We also like Emily Freeman’s 10 Questions for Reflection and Discernment

     

    2. Plan — Then Put It on the Calendar

    Reflection without planning rarely leads to results. Once you’ve identified what matters most, it’s time to plan.

    The key here is specificity. Good intentions become real commitments when they are scheduled. Block time for priorities, not just tasks. And understand your natural rhythms to know when the best time is to do what type of activities.  We outline how to do a time audit and other important “when” topics here. Whether it’s strategic thinking, personal development, health, or connection, if it matters—it deserves space on your calendar.

    You also may want to check out Cal Newport’s planner and podcast for more insights on purposeful planning for “deep work” and “slow productivity.” 

    And then, the harder part: stick to it. Treat these commitments with the same respect you give meetings and deadlines. Consistency is where progress compounds.

    3. Simplify

    Starting the year right doesn’t mean doing more. In fact, it often means doing less—on purpose.

    We simplify at HPC by selecting a theme for the year.  Here are some of our previous themes: 

    Ironically enough, our theme for 2026 HPC is “Simplicity.” 

    Look at your commitments, goals, and routines and ask: What can be simplified? Where can you reduce complexity, eliminate distractions, or streamline processes?  We will be working through all of these things this year at HPC. 

    We are starting off this year simplifying our blog and newsletters.  Blogs will be released once a month, not once a week, along with a newsletter.  Often, less is more. 

    Simplicity creates focus and it takes intention.  We are focusing on this in 2026. 

    4. Share

    Goals grow stronger when they are shared. Whether it’s with a colleague, a team, a coach, or a trusted friend, articulating your intentions out loud builds accountability and clarity.

    Sharing also invites support. You don’t have to carry the year alone—and you shouldn’t.

    In fact, with our Doer2Leader (D2L) leadership training, everyone picks an accountability partner so they are sharing their goals and sharing their progress throughout the six month program. 

    We have three groups starting this month and have a spot or two left for more- email us to set up a call to talk about your need!

    5. Calibrate Regularly

    Finally, remember that the year is not a straight line. Starting strong matters, but recalibrating regularly matters more.  Every year will no doubt require pivots. 

    Build in moments—monthly or quarterly (we like to do it quarterly)—to revisit your reflections, plans, and priorities. Ask what’s working, what’s shifting, and what needs adjustment. Calibration keeps you aligned as conditions change.

    Starting the new year right isn’t about perfection or pressure. It’s about clarity, intention, and disciplined follow-through. When you reflect honestly, plan deliberately, simplify courageously, share openly, and calibrate regularly, you create a year that is not just busy—but meaningful.

  • When to Start, Stop, or Stay: Navigating Your Next Right Thing

    When to Start, Stop, or Stay: Navigating Your Next Right Thing

    A few years ago, Mary Ila shared an insight that continues to resonate: “The next activity you need to do with your leaders? Ask: What needs to start, stop, or stay?”

    It is a simple yet powerful framework. We often apply it to organizations and teams, but not always to ourselves. Today, I want to circle back and reflect on how we can apply that lens personally.

    When do we know it is time to start something new, stop something we have been doing for a while, or make a tough call about whether to stay put or leap into something entirely different?

    A Personal Reflection

    Several years ago, I was approached to do some contract work supporting individuals in transition, both logistically and in their careers. It was meaningful, energizing work. It did not interfere with my role at HPC, and it even enhanced it. The stories, challenges, and lessons I gathered from those contract clients often made their way into the training sessions I facilitated. It was truly a win-win.

    Fast forward seven years. I still enjoyed the work, but it had started consuming more of my weekends. Meanwhile, my responsibilities at HPC had expanded, as had my salary. I was also receiving more and more local referrals for resume writing, outside the scope of my contract work.

    I wrestled with the decision to stop for nearly a year. The work was fulfilling, but it no longer aligned with the season of life I was in. When I finally chose to step away, it felt bittersweet, but ultimately, it was the right move. As Greg McKeown says in Essentialism, “You cannot overestimate the unimportance of practically everything.” That reminder helped me focus on what truly mattered.

    How to Decide What to Start, Stop, or Stay With

    My process for making this decision aligned closely with a favorite book I often recommend: The Next Right Thing by Emily P. Freeman (find it on our Bookshelf). It offers gentle wisdom for navigating uncertain seasons. One of her guiding questions, “What is the next right thing in love?” became a compass for my own reflection.

    Here is what helped me find clarity:

    1. Make a Pros and Cons List
      It is classic for a reason. Getting your thoughts down on paper brings objectivity to an emotional decision.

    2. Talk to Mentors and Trusted Advisors
      Do not go it alone. I leaned on people who know me well, including Mary Ila, our CEO, and my husband. Their honest feedback helped me see the bigger picture.

    “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.” – Mahatma Gandhi

    But sometimes, you also have to protect the energy that allows you to serve others sustainably.

    1. Ask the Hard Questions

    • If I start something new, what will I have to stop?

    • What is currently working that I need to let stay?

    • What is no longer aligned, even if it is still “good”?

    These questions brought clarity and gave me the courage to choose what served me best personally and professionally.

    For Leaders: Are You Supporting Your Team’s “Next Right Thing”?

    If you are in leadership, consider how you are helping your team members navigate their own Start, Stop, Stay questions. (If you have not read our piece on Should I Let My Employees Have Side Gigs?, it is worth a look.)

    We love helping teams explore this framework in real time through retreats and training. There is power in making space to pause and reflect, individually and together. How can we support your organization?