Category: Beyond Ready

Beyond Ready is Horizon Point’s line of resources for students preparing for college and/or career.

  • What Do You Envy?

    What Do You Envy?

    Are you envious of the guy who has started his own restaurant? What about the attorney who has argued a case before the Supreme Court (this is one of the examples in Quiet)? How about the friend who is a stay-at-home mom by day, painter by night with happy kids and her art in galleries all over the country? Maybe you’re jealous of the teacher who inspires you when she talks with passion about what the students in her class are learning. You wish you had that kind of passion.

    In reading, Quiet- The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking, I came across another great question to ask in determining work values: What do you envy?

    We are taught to see jealousy as an unbecoming trait, but the author, Susan Cain, is so insightful in her reasoning for examining what you envy as a way to identify what she describes as your “personal projects.” She states, “Jealousy is an ugly emotion, but it tells the truth. You mostly envy those who have what you desire.”

    Work and life values should be a key driver of career choice because they impact career satisfaction. There a host of questions (and assessment tools), which can help identify a person’s work values, but maybe the best place to start is by examining a feeling that we are discouraged from seeing as valuable.

    What do you envy?

  • Help Your Child Discover

    Help Your Child Discover

    I’m going to completely contradict myself today, so hang on. In a previous post I stressed the importance of 10,000 hours of practice in order to achieve mastery in a given field, implying that if you are a student that wants to succeed in a particular arena, or if you are a parent wanting to help your child become successful, devote most of your time to a single effort. 

    Is a singular focus in the teen years the right thing? Does this set a child up for career success? I’m beginning to think not. 

    A singular focus in one thing may not be helpful in helping our children master life. Maybe a better alternative is to expose our children (and ourselves) to a wide variety of things, so that we can actually discover what we want to actually devote 10,000 hours of practice towards. 

    Here are some reasons why: 

    • Exposure to variety of things naturally sets us up to fail. We can’t to be good at everything, and time and time again research shows that we learn more from failure than success. 
    • Exposure to a variety of things naturally exposes us to a variety of people, which helps us grow as individuals and as contributors to society. There is lots of value in realizing not everyone has the same skills, background, socioeconomic status, etc, and the younger we learn this, the better we are able to interact with others in a way that reflects a desire to build relationships with others. 
    • Exposure to a variety of things gives us to opportunity to find out what we do like. I wish I had a dollar for every time I got the response “I don’t know” when I asking a student who has come in for career and college coaching what they like to do, and if they do give a response it is something like “playing video games” or “cheerleading” that isn’t going to be a lasting skill for their lives. 

    Maybe we need to become masters of discovery by practicing life and all its variety at an early age. Maybe this focus will help us truly get to the business of practicing a craft in a way that leads us down a path that takes us beyond work and into self-fulfillment because we truly know ourselves, and we’ve learned from the best teacher: experience. 

    How have you helped your child discover him or herself

  • College Prep Checklist

    College Prep Checklist

    Have no clue what to do when to prepare for college admissions? You’re not alone. Recently, two parents and their high school senior were in our office seeking our assistance in vetting different college programs. They were shocked to hear that most admission deadlines in order to be considered for scholarships were less than two weeks away. In addition, they had already missed a few early acceptance application process deadlines to schools that were at the top of their list.

    Preparation for college can be a daunting process, with many students and their parents caught at the last minute with so much to do and so little time to do it or overwhelmed with all there is to do and how early the process really should start.

    We’ve taken dozens of college preparation checklists and compiled them into one list by grade. We hope that this will help you navigate what to do when as you prepare for and make decisions about college.

    Horizon Point College Prep Checklist

  • Your Talents: What Are You Good At?

    Your Talents: What Are You Good At?

    The first step in finding your light is to know yourself. The three pieces of knowing yourself involve discovering your talents, passions and values. We’ll start first with identifying your talents. There are many ways to define and identify talents, but for the purpose of career exploration and development, I think they best way to identify your talents is to define them in the way that employers do. After all, the whole point of knowing yourself is so that you can be able to find a career that you enjoy doing so that your light can shine.

    KSAOs – Knowledge, Skills, Abilities and Other characteristics- are how most employers define what the need when they go to hire an employee.  Here’s a run down of what these four things actually are:

    Knowledge – “Degree to which employees have mastered a technical body of material directly involved in the performance of a job.”

    Example of knowledge that a high school student might have:

    English Language — Knowledge of the structure and content of the English language including the meaning and spelling of words, rules of composition, and grammar.

    Skill – “The capacity to perform tasks requiring the use of tools, equipment and machinery.”

    Example of a skill that a high school student might have:

    Critical Thinking — Using logic and reasoning to identify the strengths and weaknesses of alternative solutions, conclusions or approaches to problems.

    Ability – “The capacity to carry out physical and mental acts required by a job’s tasks where the involvement of tools, equipment and machinery is not the dominate factor.”

    Example of an ability a high school student might have:

    Memorization — The ability to remember information such as words, numbers, pictures, and procedures.

    Other – “Interests, values, temperaments, and personality attributes that suggest what an employee is likely to do rather than how well an employee can do at peak performance.”

    We’ll talk more about the “other” characteristics later when we explore work and life values as well as passions. But some examples of other characteristics employers would want could want and is developed in high school and throughout life would be conscientiousness.

    The neat thing about all of these KSAOs is that they are linked by importance and level to job titles through O*Net.   You can use this tool to explore a whole list of different KSAOS and then see which job titles come up most frequently for you.

    Here is a worksheet – Find Your Point– with a list of KSAOs (as well as other things we’ll be discussion in the weeks to come) Each KSAO listed links to O*Net.  Just click them! You can do here this here too with “English Language”, “Critical Thinking” and “Memorization”.

    Some simple questions to ask yourself to identify your talents:

    1. What types of things do people ask me to help them with?  Fixing their car, giving a speech, tutoring them in math or English or biology?  What are you the go to person for?
    2. Where are you picked first?  The baseball team, the drama club, the school newspaper, the organizer of the volunteer effort?

    Next week, I’ll describe how this actually works with a real student I have worked with.  Stay tuned!

    KSAO Definitions taken from: Job and Work Analysis, Brannick, Levine, and Morgeson

  • The New Career Series: Your Light

    The New Career Series: Your Light

    As a child, I remember singing “This Little Light of Mine” in Vacation Bible School.  My favorite part was when we got to sing, “Hide it under a bushel, NO! I’m gonna let it shine!”  I think I, in part, loved this section of the song because we got to yell the word, “NO!”  when yelling was hardly ever allowed in church or at any other place for that matter.

     

                Now as a career and leadership coach, I find that I love this part of the song because shouting a resounding “NO!” to hiding your “light” under a bushel is really what clients are seeking to do.    Equipping them with the self-discovery and exploration tools to find just what their light is and find a stand in which to put in on for all the world to see and benefit from is what we do.

     

                Unfortunately, there are lots of bushels in our way.   Some of the most common ones seen are the pursuit of career solely for the sake of money without a thought to what will bring about joy and fulfillment in one’s life.  Sometimes it is listening to all the voices around us, however well intentioned, telling us that this is the right path to pursue.   We don’t take the time to think about what we would enjoy, where we could make a difference, so we let our parents or a teacher or a coach make that decision for us.  We don’t self-reflect, so others decide for us or we end up in a place where we didn’t want to be because no thought was put into which place is best.  Or we choose a college because all our friends are going there or its our parents’ alma mater and we end up not thinking about how that particular institution is going to lead to a degree that helps us set about doing the work we want to do or if a college degree is even needed to do what we endeavor to pursue.

     

                This series is written to help you as a student walk down the self-discovery path to find a career, college and major that is right for you so you can let your light shine.   It frames your discovery off the talents, passions, and values you have on your horizon in order to make well-informed career and college decisions.   The purpose is of this is not to point you to just one right path, but show you how to focus the overlap of your talents, passions, and values into the place that allows them to come together to where your brightest light can shine.

     

                However, this series’ purpose is not to just make you have the warm and fuzzy feeling and false security of pursuing something solely for the purpose of happiness.  I’ll explain how everyone’s horizon is a marketplace for skills and talents and how to discern if the sun is rising or setting on some of the options that your horizon points toward.   After all, 80% of 2009 college graduates return home to live with mom and dad because they did not have a job or job that paid enough for them to live on their own.   We don’t want this to be you (and neither do your parents!).  College is too expensive today not have a game plan for maximizing its benefits before entering.

     

                Finally, this series will outline tools to help you reach the optimal point on your horizon. From how to set goals, develop a career portfolio, find internships, job shadowing opportunities and or mentors, and practice to make perfect, you’ll be left with a leg up for college and career.

                Why is this important?

                In the movie Coach Carter, Samuel L. Jackson plays a basketball coach attempting to turn a misfit bunch of players into a winning team.  Some players are not making their grades, which is a cardinal rule not be broken by the coach that puts first things first and focuses on accountability.  The coach chains the gym closed until the players commit to making their grades.

    There are parents and teachers who disagree with this form of discipline and their disapproval all comes to a head in a school board meeting.  Coach Carter declares he will quit if his method of discipline is not supported.   By a vote of the school board, his methods aren’t supported and Coach Carter walks away from his job.

    When he goes to get the chains from the gym doors, he realizes the players are there, not with balls in hand but sitting at desks in the gym studying.  When he walks in, one player stands up and says,

     

                “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.  We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous- Actually, who are you not to be?  You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t serve the world.  There is nothing enlightening about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.  We were born to manifest God within us. It is not just in some of us, it is in everyone. And when we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.”

     

                We all have a light of greatness.  Sometimes it takes a disciplinarian coach, a loving parent, or a diligent teacher to point us towards our horizon and pinpoint our light. But, ultimately, it is each individuals’’ responsibility to understand themselves, understand the job market, and cultivate tools for success in order to shine.  We hope this series can be part of the equation that helps you sketch your horizon and unlock that light within yourself.

     

    Because unlocking your light doesn’t just matter to you, it matters to us all.